The Painful Dance

Tomorrow is Sunday and at the Calhoun's church, Paul, Mercy and I are doing special music. Paul will be playing his guitar and Mercy will be singing "O Holy Night". I'll be there along with them doing sign language. We practiced a few times before today but today for some reason I was in one of my odd moods. Actually so far, everday this week I've been in these odd moods. For those of you who know me well, you know what I'm talking about. The mood of being weird and annoying. Well..... after practicing a few times I decided that I should do my "interpetive dance sign" version of the song. So jokingly when it came to the words "fall on your knees" I fell down and waved my arms around. I swung my head with full force and smashed my nose into the coffee table. WHACK!!! Pain shot through my nose into my eyes and head. It hurt so bad. I immediantly started to cry. I'm now suffering the pain. I have a bruise on my nose and a small bruise in the eye area. That is the last time I trying to be dramatic with my signing.

Pictures

Paul and I went and bought cowboy hats to fit
in with locals. One problem.. the locals don't
even wear them.
















Engaged!!!
















Take a picture!!

Mall Walking Moms

The other day Paul, mom and I went to the mall and saw something rather unusual that I just had to share it with all of my readers here. We were sitting on a bench when we heard loud music come from somewhere. We looked around and saw a line of moms with baby stollers (with babies) marching down the hall. Mom # 1 had a boom box. Each stoller had a mom or granma with shorts and t-shirts and a baby. The babies looked so funny. They were just cruising a long for the ride. Each had a snack, drink, or toy of some kind. When we got to the other end of the mall the moms were running up the ramps with the stollers and then they stopped. They parked the babies and started flying the arms and legs while single "Jingle Bells". Then they grabbed the babies again and off they went. I asked Paul if I could join them but I recieved the look of, "no way". I got a kick out of it. What a fun yet unusual way to stay fit.

By the way each mom had a t-shirt with a slogan of some kind that explained who they were. For example, "Walking Stollers". I actually can't remember what it said but it was an actual "club" of some kind.

Engaged!

Ok... I told everyone I would post about this asap! Yesterday (as most of you know) was my 21st birthday. We started the morning with toast and orange juice and shopping with mom. Dad went to the church to work in his office. Mom, Paul and I went to Walmart and the mall. For lunch we went and got dad and to Quiznos. I got to choose because I was the "birthday girl". I opened my gifts up there and mom and Paul came together and got a sweater and vest outfit. Way cute. Paul and I raked the leaves for my parents in their yard... I'm sorry, Paul raked and Barb held the bag. For dinner (here it comes) Paul and I went to a place called, "Pastimes". Afterwards we walked down to the park which had christmas lights lit up on every tree. We sat on a bench and talked for a few minutes. Then it happened..... Paul got on one knee. I did not laugh, scream or cry. I smiled and said yes. Here comes the funny part of our "engagment story". We sat on the bench again talking about what had just happened and the bench bent backwards on us. Paul fell backwards with the bench while I stood up on time. So there you have it.. we committed our first crime together. Vandalism to public property.

Today Paul and I are getting the Christmas tree and getting that up. Tonight some kids are coming from my dad's church. I am teaching a girl, Kendi, to sign "Silent Night, Holy Night". I know tomorrow my family and Paul are having Christmas together and watching a Christmas Story.

Well... I'm in engaged.. now what? Keep smiling. Thanks for the prayers, which I know many of you have been doing.

Party at the Cooks

Last night, my entire church was split up into 3 groups to attend different Christmas parties. I went to the Cook's home. I'm laughing now just thinking about it. Its not that anything too funny happened, its just Mrs. Ascher, Heidi Scott and I got the giggles. Yes.. I'm naming names in this blog.

I started my evening by driving to the Scotts' home and getting a ride with them. Barb Garard and driving to the Cook's in the dark is not a good combination. As we arrived not only us but everyone were greeted by two very excited dogs. We started our evening eating tons of great food. After eating we played a game called Four on a Couch. Which was truly funny. I played this game during my youth group days and I can remember this game getting violent for some reason but last night it was all calm. Just for the record, the ladies won! We sang Christmas songs and opened our while elephant gifts. (laughing) I have to tell you some of the gift ideas. First, someone brought a hard drive from some machine, it took us a while to figure it out. A couple more gifts were a little nut cracker that had a string on it and when you pulled on it one leg and both of the arms went up. Which was the highlight of the evening!! I just laughed and laughed. You had to see the thing with your own eyes to understand. After gifts Mr. Cook read to us some scripture. We read from James. The same passage that Jeremy Scott will be preaching out of this Sunday. After all our little events we sat around talking to one another enjoy each others compant and fellowship.

As we drove home several things came to mind. I was thinking about the wonderful time of all of us being together and enjoy each other but also... I was pondering upon the fact that I've never realized that Mr. Ascher was that funny.

I hope all of you at my church had a great time at your parties. I know I did. I thank the Cooks for opening their homes and for the people who have organized it.

Praying for Paul

I know people from my church have been asking me several questions about Paul and his return to the states. So I thought I could post about it and give you all a little update. As of right now folks, he is in the states! He is with his family. I have to admit that none of this feels real yet. It won't until I actually see him.

To my friends and church family in Rockford, Paul will not be able to come. Traveling was getting complicated and it just made it easier to meet up in Oklahoma with my parents. I fly out next Wednesday. If anything comes up... I'll be sure to blog about it.. so keep you eyes open! ; )

Pastor Goula

A couple of weeks ago my family and I were invited to the Hayes' home for dinner. Mr. and Mrs. Hunt were there as well. We were enjoying a wonderful evening of great food and fellowship. The topic of Lousiana and Mississippi came up. As discussion of how things were growing in those hurricane afflicted areas were being enchanged, I chuckled at a little memory of my own. At this point, I just had to share it.

Most of you know about my church (Morning Star Baptist) and how we were heavily involved with sending members down to help rebuild some homes and help encourage people in that area after they were hit by the hurricane. One place that they went often was Pascagoula (sp?), Miss. After arriving down there and making several trips back and forth, members were standing up in church giving testimonies of how God has changed them and what they saw while down there. For a long time when they were saying, "We went to Pascagoula" or "We stopped at Pascagoula on the way" It never hit my little deaf ears that it was a city that they were talking about. For almost a year I thought they were talking about a pastor named Pastor Goula. It wasn't until about a month ago when my pastor shared a slide presentation with the church that had the name up on the screen under a picture of the city, "Pascagoula, Miss." It all made sense!!!! Wow...

So after sharing this story with everyone at the table, they were laughing really hard and convinced me that I needed to share this story with others.

Praying for Paul

Great News!!!! I finally heard from Paul yesterday through a phone call. He is on his way home. In the next couple of days he flies to Kuwait and then to Germany. By early December he should he heading home to the states. Please continue to pray for him. God has been good keeping Paul safe this past year. Praise God for his (Paul's) safety that has been provided through Him. Thanks for all of your thoughts and prayers concerning Paul this past year while he was in Iraq. For all of you in Rockford, Paul plans on coming to Rockford and visiting. I know he looks forward to seeing all of you at church.

Thank you everyone!!

Praying for Paul

Even though Paul's time left in Iraq is short things have only gotten rougher. He emailed me and said he and others were hit by two road side bombs. Four of his friends were hurt but are going to be ok. Please take time to pray for Paul and his friends. Also praise God for keeping Paul safe from any injuries.

Praying for Paul

Paul called me this past week on Tuesday. We had a great conversation with new ideas, plans and goals we had in life. Paul is doing pretty good and is getting ready to head back to Germany. The "date" is getting really close so please continue to pray for safety.
I know I had mentioned to you all before of Paul's plan to join the Coast Guard. He feels that God is laying another path in his life. He hasn't made any final decisions but he is considering them. He talked about possibly going to college and majoring in History/Literature. I happen to like this idea better but he knows that I'm supportive no matter what. So you can also pray for Paul as he seeks God's wisdom about these plans.
Also keep in your prayers Paul's brother Dan who is in the Navy. I know I have talked about him in the past as well. He is still waiting for his orders. For a while he thought he was going to get them but then they didn't give him any and he continues to wait. Which can be frustrating. Especially if you've been waiting as long as he has.
Thanks for all your prayers while Paul was in Iraq. Also thankyou to the ladies in the church who always asked about him and always reminded me that they were praying for him.

A Trip to the Past

I went to ISD (Illinois School for the Deaf) where I graduated from high school a couple of weeks ago. I truly had a blessed time seeing all of my teachers, especially a visit with one particular teacher that helped me a lot during my time there. I also had a chance to visit some friends who I graduated with and caught up with them. It was good to find out what they were up to.

Friday morning I showed up in the high school building and had lunch with the teachers. This was a time of them asking me questions and wanting to know what I was doing in my life. Saturday was the day of games. V-ball game and football game. After the games I went back to Penny's house and watched a movie and ate pizza. On sunday I went to church with Penny which is the same church that I attended when I went to high school down there. I saw more teachers and friends there. Then Sunday afternoon I went along with Penny to one of the teacher's baby shower. I had a good time there catching up with other people that I knew while attending high school.

Overall this trip was good. It made me realize several things. Even though ISD was considered my home when I was attending there it isn't my home anymore. I guess I thought I would recieve that "home" feeling once arriving but I found myself wanting to go home, here in Rockford. I also got a chance to truly thank some teachers for their help and setting an example for me. I had a chance to sit and talk with one of my teachers who is a Christian and encouraged me a lot while I was there. I know both my parents and I feel that Jamsie (the teacher) was one of the reason why I pulled through my last year there.

Here are some pictures!!

Enjoy












Jamsie, Shelia (Science teacher) and Me
Penny and Me -- Me, (school friends) Krista, Candi and Chris

Praying for Paul

I was able to talk to Paul online yesterday. He seems well and hopefully getting more sleep. He had mentioned that his previous couple of weeks at the tree house were actually not that bad. I don't know what that means compares to what normally happens but we are all thankful. =)
Paul had mentioned that they were actually told a date to be back in Germany. Which is very soon. So please pray that these dates are final and that he can soon get out of the place and safely.

Thanks for all of your prayers.

*Here is a recent picture of Paul. Not really sure about any details about the picture.

Praying for Paul

Prayers are needed for Paul's safety. Paul doesn't get nearly enough sleep as he should be getting. Even when talking to him I can tell. His mom said she believes he is sleep deprived. Which makes us nervous because Paul has to be able to protect himself out there. How do they expect him to do that when he is so tired? Just pray that God keeps Paul safe and that a higher authority sees this as a problem and provides more sleeping time for these guys.

Garden of the Month

First they called me.

Then, dad screamed my name and mom waved her arms around.

Dad called Grace screaming and laughing. Grace then screamed and announced to Kurt and his parents.

Then he called his dad to shout the news.

Both of these phone calls consited of, "AHHHHH! HE HE HE HO HE HE HA HA HO HO. I WON. I WON. HE HE HE HA HA HA HO HO HE HE HE!!"

Yes, after all these years, dad finally won Signal Hill (neighborhood) 's Garden of the Month. Signal Hill which is the ever so clever name of our neighborhood has these "garden of the month" recognitions. This is where the "chairmans" go around looking at the different garden's of the neighborhood and put signs out in the garden that is deemed most worthy. Year after year the cute neighbor down the street got the sign. Well.. watch "cute neighbor" the old neighbor gets his chance to shine. So after many years of working in the garden its finally paying off.

Signal Hill's "Garden of the Month" -- Mr Mark Garard's home on 522 Napoleon St.

=)

More Summer Pictures

At Grandma Garards













At Aunt Teri and Uncle Dan's in Florida

Florida Pictures.. Summer 2006

 

There She Goes!

Dad had given me a list of things he wanted me to do around the house. I was almost done when "it" happened. I was vacuuming the stairs and we have one of those massive vacuums that you have to haul step after step. I reached the top of our stairs and it was still plugged in at the bottom. I grabbed a fan and a broken lamp next to the vacuum as I turned around to walk down the stairs I stepped on the cord and it took a dive. I turned around just in time to get nailed in the head. It hit me right in the temple and the side of the face. I lost my balance with the two items in my hand but manage to use the wall to keep me up. After putting everything back where it was, the pain really started to kick in. Now my jaw is sore, my teeth hurts, my one side of the head is swollen and not to mention my whole head hurts. Oh well... at least I didn't fall down the stairs with the broken lamp. Then I would have quite the story to tell. So... what lesson did I learn? Put away the vacuum cleaner before moving to the next step in a days cleaning. I hope all of my readers can learn from my mistakes! =)

GO EAGLES!

This year at RVC they have created this new holiday rule, which I like a lot. If the school gets Monday off because of a weekend holiday then the next day, Tuesday gets off too. Simply because its not fair to the Monday students to be behind one day compared to the Tuesday students who would be ahead one day in class studies. This long weekend has been fun and relaxing. Although I have today off, I need to be studying for classes and reading my chapters. Which is a reason I shouldn't be blogging about it but doing it.
Well, I thought I would share with all of you how school is going so far. I'm taking Math 115, Child Psychology, Ceramics and Nutrition. They are all very interesting classes. I come home from Child Psych. telling my dad everything that he did wrong. Ha.. Dad doesn't care too much for it though. Neither do I. Its all "new agey" stuff of how we are suppose to let our kids be the adults of themselves and we are only there when they fall. I'm not saying its all bad just most of it. I sure hope my teacher doesn't read my blog. =) So overall God has blessed me with great teachers and fun classes. Just pray that this semester goes smoothly. After that I only have one semester left. Yay!!

*Eagles is RVC's mascot

Birthday Morning

Well... So I didn't get to run down the hall and jump on the bed because dad was already up but I did think about it. So like any normal person I just handed it to him and watched him open it. I think he liked it. I also got him a "sweet" card. With dad I always get a nice card. Not one that says, "You are like the moon and stars to me.. Without you I am nothing." Those cards are little bit weird. Mine was something like.. "even though I am growing up I am never too old to be your little girl." I think "daddies" love to hear those kinds of things. We are going to Mel for a birthday lunch today. I think he'll enjoy that. Anyways I hope everyone has a great Sunday!

Inching his Way to 60

My dad hardly ever reads my blog so I know I can say this and get away with it. =) His birthday is this Sunday. He is turning......shhh (51)... So far nothing has been said at home, he probably even forgot himself. Ha. That happens when you get.... close to being old. I won't say old. So Sunday morning I plan to run down the hall screaming happy birthday and jump on the bed with his gift and card. My sister and I used to do that for my parent's birthday. I miss those memories.. I just have to focus not to land on him when I jump. That would hurt someone a lot. Especially someone of my age landing on someone of his age. He isn't much of birthday party kind of guy so we do little celebrations in the morning before we all start our day. So this coming Sunday if you think about it go and say Happy Birthday. Just please, whatever you do, don't do the birthday cheer. People at my church know exactly what I am talking about.

Mispelled Word

So... I've been told of some of my errors on my recent post but it was pretty big one. I used the word "advents" I mean to say events. Don't ask how I got those two mixed up.

Thanks

Praying for Paul

I talked to Paul about a week ago and expect a call from him any day now. I did get a letter and an email from him this week. In the card he had mention that he is doing some of the same stuff over and over that he stopped becoming effected by it. He is seeing things and doing things that one person can't even imagine what he must be going through mentally. Please pray for him. I know he is ready to come home. Pray for him every week as he works out in the tree house for his safety and ability to perform his tasks.
I'm going to be open about this, also pray for both Paul and I to seek God's wisdom concerning our relationship. We more than anything want to do God's will. We have been seeking wisdom and advice from our parents. I am suppose to share something with all of you readers of my blog but I'm at loss of how to put this exactly but dad wanted me to share this with everyone so that everyone is aware of Paul and I's relationship. I met Paul last year in early June. I started emailing him in November of the previous year. Simply because his parents had mention his lack of Christian friends so I thought I could drop a line. When talking through emails I kept it strict. I didn't know him and he didn't know me so I was careful. I often shared Pastor's sermons with him and my devotions and other weekly advents that linked with some sort of spiritual conviction. After meeting him well... things changed. I got to know Paul on a different friendship level and we started going out for coffee. He was only home for 3 weeks so only a better friendship was developed. Over time through emails we got to know each other better and knew that we were interested. I right away got my parents involved. I wanted their wisdom in all of this. In October of '05 Paul came home again for another couple of weeks and we took things a little bit furthur. Dad finally agreed for us to have our offical first date. Still in all of this my parents, friends, me and Paul were careful but it was at this time when dad gave us permission to be a "couple". Paul came home again in Jan and things continued to grow. Paul and I have continued to be careful considering the lack of time we have spent in actual presence but through letter writing, emailing and phone calls we have continued our "relationship" and have seen it grown. Recently.... Paul wrote a letter to dad of his "intentions". In this letter it included Paul's intentions of asking my dad for my hand in marriage when he came home this Christmas. He also talked about how he wanted to join the Coast Guard as a medic once leaving the Army. I'm sure you know what dad was thinking... "You want to take my baby girl to the coast away from me? Without getting to know me or me getting to know you?" Dad (and I) have prayed about this situation a lot. Plus dad has asked many trusted christian brothers for their advice. Dad finally has a letter ready to go in the mail as a response to Paul's letter. Its a long letter but positive and I can see that my dad is a Godly man who is doing his christian duty as a father in the response he gave Paul. It boiled down to getting to know Paul better, wanting Paul to be a strong Christian man, what he expected from Paul now until he came home and what he expected of Paul during his last year in the Army. Dad did say at the end of the letter.., "I don't plan on saying no, Paul. At least I don't have a reason. However it depends on what happens between now and until you come home."

So pray for Paul as he is in Iraq and prepares to come home and pray for Paul and I to seek and listen to both God and our parent's wisdom.

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Thanks!!

Twice upon a Night

My day was going pretty good. I was one my way to the Foster's home and it was a beautiful day. I wasn't more than 15 min or less away from home. I was driving a long and this guy next to me was driving really close behind me but then he passed me. I quickly glanced at him as he passed me by. As I returned to look in back front I was about to hit a guy who had stop to let someone turn in front of him. I slammed on my breaks but it was too late. I hit him from behind but he let off his breaks so the impact wouldn't be so hard. I just lost it. I started shaking before I could cry. The guy was really nice though. He tried to calm me down and told me to sit and catch my breathe. A undercover cop car saw us and pulled over and came and talked to us. We pulled into a parking lot so we were not blocking anyone. We handled all business there and I got the ticket. But I thought about how if that guy who was driving really close behind me, if he would have still been behind me he would have slammed in the back of me. God was merciful to me. In the mean time dad came out and talked with me and was happy that everyone was ok. By this time it was time for me to head to class. So I drove to class. I was ever so carefull and took my time. I pulled into the parking lot and there was a car in front of me. She pulled into a spot and I stopped, let her pulled in and then I continued on my way. Well.. as I was pulling behind her to find my own stop she backed up pretty fast into my door. I just couldn't believe it. At any moment I thought I would wake up and laugh at this unbelievable dream. Or should I say I was hoping would be but of course I knew this was reality. I will say it wasn't my fault. What made this difficult was that the girl who ran into me had this major attitude. I was already an emotional wreck and I didn't need an attitude. I called dad again and he just couldn't believe it so he came back to my side. An RVC (campus police) police came and dealt with us and got seperate stories. No one got a ticket. Thank goodness. I went to class but I REFUSED to drive home. Mom and Dad came and got me. By that time my neck, head and back hurt. God did protect me during these trials. I do feel like he was testing me in many different areas. One of them being, do I have faith in Him first when these things happen. I will admit by the second time, I got angry but I had to stop it and ask the girl to forgive me. She was a bit surprise I said sorry. She was so mad at me and blamed me for the whole thing and I just let it go. Oh well its all over with and even though I am sore. I'm glad I'm just sore and not in the hospital. I had one crazy night. I need to learn to have faith first in situations like this.

A Non-stop Flight to Fun

After visiting Granma Garard and just being around her in her company I was home for 2 days. Since I did 2 classes separately this summer at Rock Valley, my summer was just starting. Melody Geiseman and I headed to Chicago on a Wednesday morning to do our little day trip before I had to leave the next day to Florida. We were on a mission to see King Tut’s Tomb and visit a store that my dad requested us to stop by to "check out". Both of these let us down but left us either laughing or find some other adventure. Once we got off the train we started walking down to the 900 block of Michigan Ave. Might I add that we were on the other end near 800. Once we arrived at the store.... we were disappointed to find a puny little store with not much to offer. By that time it was time to go see King Tut’s Tomb. Something I had been looking forward to all day. As the bus was pulling into the museum we saw, "King Tut’s Sold Out". Now what? We walked to the Shedd Aquarium but there was a long outdoor line. Then we saw it.... "Water Taxi". We hoped on the water Taxi and headed to Navy Pier and finished our afternoon there. We stayed in a nice room at the Holiday Inn Express. The next day I was off to Florida.


My Uncle Dan arrived to pick me up from the airport. I had my aunt and uncle to myself for most of my trip because their 3 boys were visiting their grandparents in South Carolina. Aunt Teri and I went running and did some exercising while I was there. We went to church on Sunday and I enjoyed it very much. On Monday we picked up the boys and drove to Sea World in Orlando. I had a blast there and was just blown away! I loved being with my 3 adorable cousins and spending time getting to know them a little bit better too. After a long day we headed home and I told stories until we found a place to eat dinner.


After this trip I headed home for yet another 2 days before I headed out to West Virginia. I arrived in WV without my luggage. My luggage decided to hang out in Chicago for one more day and take the next flight after me. My luggage was thankfully returned to me the following day in the mid afternoon. Mrs. Calhoun, Mercy and I went shopping Saturday afternoon and had dinner at a Chinese restaurant. On the way home Mercy and I played a never ending game of 20 questions but we had our share of laughs. Sunday morning was church which once again I was blessed with a good sermon and a restful afternoons. Pretty much everyday of the week Mercy and I went swimming at the country club and played games. Several times during the week Mrs. Calhoun and I stayed up really late talking or looking through baby books of her kids. I got the opportunity to see all of these cute, funny, pitiful and adorable pictures of Paul. Ha. We even watched baby home videos of all the kids. I enjoyed watching them so much. Might I add that I did get a chance to talk to Paul shortly this week. He is doing ok but please continue to pray for him. Prayer is needed for those boys and girls over there in Iraq. We ended my trip by having dinner at the country club with a jazz band on a terrace. We had a buffet style dinner with all kinds of food. I had a lot of fun there too. Mercy and I sat on this hill on the grounds of the country club and talked for a long time about what the future may bring. I hated to leave them but I know I will see them again soon.

*Thank you to all of you for letting me visit you and making my trips so much fun. I love you all.

*In a couple of days I will have some pictures of Mel and I's trip to Chicago and some pictures from West Virginia.

Sleepless Night

Its about 10:40 pm and I can't go to sleep for the life of me. Tomorrow Melody and I are driving into Chicago for a day of adventures and then staying over night. Then the next day I fly out to Florida to visit my Aunt and Uncle. I am waaaay too excited to sleep. Yes, folks I tried counting sheeps. Believe me it don't work. I am gone the rest of this week and most of next week and all of the following week after that. I'm visiting Paul's family in West Virginia next Friday for a week. Please pray that all flights go smoothly. If I get nervous I will just pull out the deaf card. Believe me.. If you start signing at someone they freak out. Especially if you were talking one minute and then the next you're deaf. Well, I'm going to go climb back into bed and try really hard to fall asleep. I'll write in a few weeks hopefully with some fun stories to tell.

:)

Praying for Paul

Just click the TV on or open the newspaper and you will see the results yourself. The middle east is in a mess. Fact is folks that Paul Calhoun and Jeff Rebelek (Gene's son) need our prayers. As well as all the soldiers serving our country.

I recieved a phone call from Paul today. It was nice to hear his voice and to know that so far he is doing pretty good for being in a war. Paul mentioned that if all goes as planned he will be coming home the first week of December and stays through for all the holidays. Continue to pray that these last several months go quickly and out of harm's way.

A Vacation With Granma

I arrived here in Shelbyville, Illnois on a Thursday early afternoon to have a week long visit with my grandmother. It is now Wednesday the following week and this visit has gone much too fast. I am enjoying every minute I have with her and hate to see it end. We've enjoyed movies and going out to lunch together. A couple of times we've gotten quite goofy. I will keep those moments between Granma and I. Moments to look back on when we need a good laugh. I will say that I know a granma Garard that is different than what others might know her as. She is quite the character. What did you expect? I got my personality from someone in the family. I have to say after weeks of schooling this summer its nice to have a break. What could possibly be better than spending it with my favorite person?
Every morning we wake up with devotions. We've been reading out of Philippians. After Pastor Bob read the whole book to us on a Wednesday night service at church I was quite convicted. So I wanted to share my conviction with Granma. We are learning a lot together as we read through it. We also have daily readings that we go through. So we each take turns reading our "lessons" for the day. I have to say that its so enjoyable to have this time with her. I just love the fact that I have grandmother who is a Christian and has a passion for Christ. Its so nice and is a blessing that God placed her in my life.
As Wednesday ends I am reminded that there are still four days left of my vacation. Which means four days of silly nights with my Grandmother.

Praying for Paul

Paul called me on Friday the 14th and I have some good news to pass along. His hand is doing much better and he is able to use it again. He was quite excited that he could see his knuckles again. In the mean time continue to pray for the healing of his hand and his safety.

Praying for the Military

I just wanted to remind everyone that prayer is needed when it comes to praying for the men and women in the Military. Just this past Friday I had a friend leave for Iraq. His name is Will. I also have two cousins in the service who could also use prayer and lets not forget Paul and his brother, Dan. I know family and friends reading this can think of at least one person that they know that are in some branch of the Military. I have been reminded by these people that I know, of the struggles that they face everyday including death. I pray for the people serving our country as well as our President for God to give them wisdom. Lets all take time to pray for the men and women in the Military and those who are leading our country.

Here is a picture of Will:

Flowers from Iraq

I knew something was coming through the mail from Paul but I didn't know what. I talked to Paul last week and he told me that something was coming my way around the 6th of July. Dad had left the house around 11:25am and saw the box arrive but (of course) I didn't hear the man knocking. A couple of hours later dad gets home and brings the box in. I open the box and a dozen gerber daisies (my favorite flowers) were sitting in a vase all wrapped up. Each individual flower was wrapped. As I unfolded all the flowers and cut them and put them in water I can't help but admit that I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face. Attached to the box was a card that he had written something in. He hoped that recieving the flowers would brighten my day. They most certainly did!

Praying for Paul

Last week I put up a post explaining a little bit about what Paul does when he is in the "treehouse" but even I am not fully aware of what they are doing. Whether they are just on "watch" or doing stuff or what but I got an email from Paul yesterday. He is normally gone for about ten days but he had to go to the doctors because he smashed his hand pretty badly. He said it hurt really bad and for several hours he couldn't move his hand. According to him it was the size of a grape fruit. After the Dr. examined it they couldn't tell if it was broken or not because of the swelling but his thumb got the worst of it. Keep praying for Paul and his safety.

My Granma, My Best Friend

Grandma,
I don't tell you this enough, I love you. Throughout my childhood leading up to my adulthood you have set an example and I have looked up to you. I hope that one day I will have the same passion for God as you do. Just thinking of everything we have gone through brings tears and yet a little chuckle to my heart. Thankyou for being my Grandma who watched out for me and inspired me and thankyou for being my friend who laughed, cried and talked when it was needed. I love you.

Granma Garard is special to everyone who has met her. I know this because I have been told this by family and friends. Even my deaf friends who have met her, ask me when they email, "How is Grandma?" Even people who have never met her and have only listened to the stories I have told about my Grandma.
I had the privilage of "taking care'' of Granma during her chemo therapy when she first had to go through it. It was hard to see her struggle. This was a Granma who stood on her own two feet and ran a bed and breakfast. Nothing stopped this Granma. After chemo we would go back to the house and sleep or eat something if she could. We read our Bibles everyday and I would give Granma a lesson from various spiritual books I had brought. We had a "theme" for our time together as we prayed and read God's word. "Never fear an unknown future in the hands of a known God". I do believe this quote came from Corrie Ten Boom.
It was during this time when Granma and I grew together as friends. I learned so much from her by watching her and by listening to her. She is a beautiful person inside and out. I have also learned so much spiritually from her. Here she was going through cancer and chemo but always kept her eyes and her heart on the things of the Lord. My Grandma Garard has touched my heart and my life. I have gone to her several times asking for spiritual advice and what a joy to know that I can do that. Not only is she my Grandma but she is my best friend.

Praying For Paul

I got to talk to Paul on the phone at the beginning of this week and he informed me on some of the stuff happening with him. He does go to, what he calls, the treehouse. Its like a watch tower. They are there for about a week sometimes longer. They go back into town and are there for a short while before they are sent back out. Its been a routine for sometime and it appear to stay that way for the time being. Recently Paul was moved into a room with internet access. He was thrilled about that. He had been out of the loop with the rest of the world because the chances of being able to find internet access somewhere near by were slim. Let alone given the chance to do so. I thought this was kind of funny. To make time go faster. Him and other guys bought boxing gloves and have boxing matches. So I am mailing a box with some card games out to him this week. Something different than what they are normally doing in their everyday activities. I know several of you have asked for Paul's email address and mailing address. I do have both. If you are still interested in having them just let me know and I will make sure you get it. Thanks for prayers concerning Paul and all the troops.

A New Fashion Trend

Have you ever been in such a hurry that while getting dress you didn't pay attention? I grabbed a blue shirt and tan skirt with one silver and one gold flip flop. No I wasn't trying to make a fashion statement. I was simply getting ready for church. I thought I had grabbed two blue flip flop but some how manage grabbing two different colors. What was a little humerous about all of this was the fact that I was at Mel and Karyn's house. Nothing could be done. I arrived to church hoping people wouldn't notice and no one did! Unless they were being super nice by not saying anything. I am not the only one in my family who has done this before. My ever elegant Granma Garard had a moment very similar to mine. She went to a garage sale and was looking around when one of the ladies there mentioned that they loved her outfit. Granma didn't think much of it until she got into the car. She noticed that she had one white and one blue shoe on. The funny part was they actually matched her dress which was blue and white. Oh how I love these moments that Granma and I are prone to have.
:)

Anderson's Japanese Garden

Even though Rockford isn't a tourist town and there isn't much to do except shop there is one place that us Rockfordians can take pride in having, Anderson's Garden. Anderson's Garden is owned by this couple whose house can be seen while touring the Garden. This garden is based on a Japanese garden which is filled with all kinds of plants, waterfalls, ponds and fountains. Not to mention the really cool and unique bridges you get to walk over and the rocks you get to walk on. Today Karyn, Mel and I decided to go there and find our inner peace. Ha... I say that because the guy that we ran into (an employee) made us sit and exmine the trees and told us that people should come to bring harmony into relationships. I have to say I feel so much closer to Karyn and Mel. Wouldn't you agree girls? I had to bring some humor into this blog. Other than that weird moment we had a fun time. It was nice as friends to be able to walk around and enjoy our fellowship with each other. These pictures were taken by Karyn and I have to say, Miss Karyn, pretty impressive. This is one place in Rockford that everyone should make time to visit. I have to say for $5 its not a bad pric

Wedding: Part Two

Ok.. I took this picture off of Karyn's website so I hope she doens't mind but I know some of my family members have been wanting to see a picture of Grace and Kurt and for now this is the only one available. As soon as we get the other pictures I will post a bunch for all to see.. Enjoy! Don't they look good together.

Wedding: Part One

For those of you who know me and my family well know that there was a wedding yesterday in the Garard family. My older and only sister got married to Kurt Musgrave. I was somewhat sad but also extremely happy. My whole family is happy for her but now our house is a little empty. Anyways the wedding was amazing. It went perfect. I don't have any pictures for those of who would love to see them but soon I will put up "part two" of this blog. For now I only have a picture of my cousins and I and one of the other bridesmaid and I. Grace didn't even look nervous walking down the isle. I think dad had more tears in his eyes than Grace did. Of course I was sobbing. I didn't think it was that bad until a lot of people came up to after the wedding saying that they didn't think I would make it. Grace did a very good job telling the coordinators what she wanted for the wedding and how she wanted it because everything was beautiful. At the end of the night Kurt and Grace left in their limo with one more kiss goodbye for the crowd. I have to admit its still weird to say that Grace is married and now is Grace Musgrave. Well... I'm happy for both of them and I am so thankful to God for bringing them together. I'm also thankful for everyone that came to the wedding especially family members. That meant a lot to Grace to see aunts, uncles and cousins. I have to send a word out to my cousins. It was so much fun having you guys here. All of you were a big help in the wedding. Before, during and after. You guys are awesome! Well as soon as I get some pictures I will post them for those of you who couldn't make it.

Praying for Paul

I know all of you have asked me how Paul is doing. The truth is I don't know much. I do know that he is doing some kind of duty where he is on one week and off the other week. Due to this new set up I hardly ever get to hear from him. I did miss his call last week. I was so disappointed but it was nice to know that he was doing ok and made the effort to call me. Please continue to pray for Paul's strength and safety as he continues to defend our freedom. Pray for all of the soldiers.

Adventures at the Metras

I entered the home of the Metras family as the parents were leaving their kids in the hands of Amanda Myers and Barb Garard. They were brave from the start. The fun had just begun...
We started the evening with random shouting and talking over each other. We went outside because Cody wanted to show us something and now that I think of it.... Did he ever show us? Well we had to go past the creepy dog to get in the house and I must say the dog is cute but creepy. We had tacos for dinner. Our table talk once again consisted of random shouting and talking over one another. Once we finished we decided that we needed to be outside enjoying this beautiful day that God has given us. We wandered around the yard but eventually came to the decision of going to the "lake" at a near by park. I say "lake" because it was more like a green pond with "sharks". After all of us arriving in different groups we started to walk around the pond. While being eaten alive by little bugs Amanda spoted a "shark" in the pond. For a good 15 minutes we stare at the pond seeing fins going up and down. I came to the conclusion it was a catfish. Amanda's conclusion was sharks. Cody's conclusion was turtles. The rest of the kids liked the shark idea. We continued our walk. After walking over some bridges we spoted a dead fish. Quite facinating. After explaining that touching the dead fish wasn't a good idea, Ethan reaches down and pokes it. Now we must wash our hands. We get back to the house and saw sun go down and it was beautiful. Before going inside for some (I thought wrong) quiet time we played a game of baseball. The night was such a blurr that I am trying to remember what we did after that. Oh yeah walk pass the creepy dog. Actually I made Ethan hold onto the dog so I could walk into the house. We had our BARQ'S (rootbeer) float and put National Treasure on for some down time. Then Amanda had a battle with the TV. She came to her own conclusion that the cable was lose and several times went to wiggle it. It helped but several times we were watching a blank screen and just listening to the movie. The movie finally ended. It was 11:15 pm. We play a game of "tell a story". It was a story about a fat boy that jumps of the bed and bounces into the attic to meet his grandma cooking stew and tells the story of the "magic" turtle neck. Its 11:45pm. The parents arrive home around 12:10 from their date which was a lot of fun according to them. I had fun tonight. I love watching those boys. If you ever want a fun time just call the Metras up and ask for the privilage to watch them. Although I must admit that I'm glad I got to bed when I did. Sleep was good.

Girls Day Out

I was so excited getting out of bed Friday morning the 19th knowing that I would soon get to see my little Mercy friend. I introduced Mercy Calhoun on another blog I had posted about the Calhoun Family. They moved to West Virginia back in February and my little shopping buddy was gone but God was gracious enough to allow them to come up to Rockford for a quick visit. I was thrilled when I received an email from Dr. Calhoun saying they would come up on May 19th. Right away I cleared my schedule on that day and set it aside for Mercy.
They pulled into the Holiday Inn around 9:45am and it was so nice to see Mercy come running into my arms. We said goodbye to Dr. and then headed off to Woodmans. We picked up some sandwich stuff and bread and headed to the Fosters. Mercy is also good friends with Nancy and Sarah Foster. They were previous babysitters of hers. We drove to a park near their home and had a picnic lunch. After a great lunch we headed for the one place that we both love. The mall. We shopped their several hours. Got our pictures done in a fun booth. I just love those booths. Mercy and I made it a tradition to go in one of those every time we hit the mall. Sadly the day ended with me dropping her off at her friend's home to have a sleep over. I thought the fun was over then but then on Sunday Dr. Calhoun called me to meet them at the mall. I meet them at (I think) "Paint N Fun". I don't remember the exact name of the craft store. Its a place where you paint ceramics. Mercy had painted me this shirt with all of kinds of fun colors and put the word "shopper" on there. I think I need to work on how I influence people. Ha. "The Shopper" wasn't what I had in mind. Eventually the fun afternoon came to an end. I wasn't too sad seeing them go because I will be flying out to West Virginia this August to visit them. I can hardly wait!

A Short Reunion

There I was dodging cars left and right flying solo to Chicago. My parents finally let me go alone!! For years I have wanted to go to Woodfield mall and meet up with friends. Most of my friends from the high school I graduated from live in that area. The drive there was easy as well as the drive back. The traffic was horrible but "Aaron Shust" and I sang our whole way there and back. I was meeting up with my friend Amy. It has been 2 years since we last saw each other! I arrived around 2pm at the Cheesecake Factory. It was my first time there also which by the way is an awesome resturant. My time with Amy at the resturant and in the mall was so much fun. My "deaf" side just jumped out of me. It was so cool to be able to sign and scare the workers in the stores. I've notice that people get nervous coming up to deaf people. They smile at you and I'm sure they are wondering if they should say something to us or just keep smiling. So I sign and "turn off" my voice... and then out of no where I speak. "Excuse me miss..." Hehe. Amy and I got the full experience of how pushy these workers in the stores can be. First at the resturant our waitress came with our meal. We said, "whoa" and then she walked away. I was like... ummm ok. She came back and asked what we ordered. She was really irritated with us at this moment. Apparently when we said "whoa" she thought we said "no". Looks like we are not the only one deaf here, huh? Then we counted 7 times people asked us if we wanted a bag for shopping. That was only in one store. As we were walking from store to store this lady pulled me to her booth and started putting all these things in my hair! She was pulling my hair up and sticking it in a bun and it looked like I was showered in diamonds. Besides pushy mall workers we had a blast tonight. I really do miss all of my deaf friends. I hope we can do it again some time soon Amy!!!!

Praying for Paul

This past Sunday the 7th of May I was blessed by receiving a phone call from Paul. We actually talked for an hour which is the longest that we have ever talked over the phone. Normally there is a time limit and limited phone minutes available but this time around there wasn't. Paul sounded pretty good. He shared with me some of things that he has been occupied with. There was even moments of sitting around and waiting for orders. From my understanding he said that he was doing a "watch" thing where they are out in the middle of no where "on watch" for a week and then they go back into town and are off for a week. Continue to pray that God gives him Grace to make it through these days. Even though Paul didn't share this story with me personally he shared it with his mother. After talking to Paul on Sunday I called his mom, Kathy Calhoun. We chatted and shared our conversations we had with Paul. She said that while Paul was waiting for orders, him and the other guys got bored waiting. So they made their way to a store near by and bought boxing gloves and had a "boxing match". I thought it was kind of funny how these guys will find anything to do make their time there go faster. It turns out that while Paul was involved in this he got a black eye. Anyways I thought it would be fun to share that little piece of information with you folks. Thanks for your many prayers. Paul even mentioned to me on the phone that he really appreciates all the prayers. Its so encouraging to hear of all the prayers that are being lifted up to God everyday for Paul and the other soldiers.
The prayers are needed.

The Definition of Friendship

1. A person whom one knows, likes and trusts
2. One who supports and sympathizes with

It wasn't until I became friends with Melody Geiseman when I finally realized what a "best friend" was. God brought Mel and I together as friends at a time when He knew we needed each other. During this time we went through a lot individually and together. One thing Mel never did and I know never will do is leave me behind. She has been with me every step of the way in prayer and in presence. When I left for school down in Jacksonville, Illinois she was the one friend that always wrote me letters. When I was in the hospital for 8 days under going tests she stayed all night one beside my bed in a chair that folded out into a bed. Just to give me comfort while I slept and because she knew I was scared. When I need a friend to pray with I know she is the first one there. If I ever need to cry and just vent she is always there ready to listen. If ever I am having a crazy hyper day and need someone to be crazy with me, I know I could call Melody up. Seriously, there is no limit when having a friend like Mel. If you want to lose weight and you tell Mel to help you, she will say, "Now Barb, should you really have that extra piece?" If you need accountablitity to read your Bible, Mel will make sure you get that. It's nice to know that Mel is just a phone call away when I need her. I want to thank Melody for her friendship. I know these past couple of years we have gone through a lot but our friendship has only grown stronger. God has truly blessed me with having her in my life. Now Mel, lets not go get lost in any forest reserves anymore, ok? I love you Melody!

Praying for Paul

First, I want to give a huge thankyou to all of you who have been praying for Paul. Paul has been in the army for almost two and half years now. He has been fighting a good fight. Even Paul himself has told me how God has used the army to change his life. Paul is in Iraq now as a SPC in the sniper unit. I know so many family and friends of mine have been praying for him and are constantly asking me how he is doing. Its very encouraging to hear all the prayers that are being lifted up to God for Paul's safety and heart. I was blessed this month with three phone calls from Paul. Which is rare so I was extremely excited to have these moments to talk to him. Its really nice to hear from him on a more personal level and to talk about things that were going on. I always try to bring a little bit of home in our conversations. Telling him about my schooling and about "Buddy" the dog going insane during a thunderstorm. For those of you who know my dog, knows what I am talking about. ;) Paul had mentioned that everyday life is pretty much getting up, going on partol, eating and checking his email. Then he starts his whole day over again. I was really encourage hearing about a month ago from him that while on patrol he was greeted by some children where he is stationed. He seemed to have enjoyed that moment. At the end of the same day him and other buddies were invited to a BBQ but they had to get back to base. I'm sure its moments like those that can put a smile on these guys over there. Today Paul mentioned that his sleeping arrangments have been changed due to lack of clean water where they currently were. He excitingly told me about moving into hospital tents that were cleaner. These are just some simple updates concerning Paul. I know many of you are praying for him. Not only I but also Paul and his family are extremely thankful. I know all of you will continue to do so. Also keep in mind Paul's brother Dan who is in the Navy and is going to Hawaii.

*Just note that I could have some of this information twisted. Most of you know that my lack of hearing can lead to different stories. Ha. As far as I know, this information is correct. :)

Road Trip

There we were at 7 in the morning making our way down the highway. Lincoln here we come! Melody Geiseman and I took off to our day of fun in
Springfield, Illinois. Driving down there was no problem. After one potty stop we got there about 10:30 a.m. We were going to the Lincoln Library. I've been there one other time so I knew what kind of adventure we were into. Little did I know that when you are with Melody fun becomes crazy. The museum is amazing! It concluded with two theatre shows and two "walk throughs". Which was like walking through the life of Lincoln. One of the walks was Lincoln childhood's leading up to his adult years. The other one was entering the White House and it started at the election and ended with the day Lincoln was shot. As you leave this walk you enter the showing of Lincoln's casket. One of the most beautiful and heart moving things that I have experienced. Near the end of our tour I convinced Melody to go into the children's "play area" and play dress up! We both put on skirts and shawls and got our pictures done. Not to mention I got to put on a mask and look like Abe for day. What fun! After our three-hour tour through the museum, we took off down the street to the first capitol building in Springfield. Which happens to be a very cool building. We took a tour of the building and learned a bunch of interesting facts. After this tour we went across the street to the candy shop! There Melody bought a bunch of candy. After arriving back to the car we both decided that we were not done yet. So after driving for about 30 minutes looking for something to do; we ended up at Lincoln's tomb. This would make our third time touring this beautiful gravesite. We enjoy going to it every time. After this I decided that my knees and feet could take no more!! I was ready to have supper. We drove an hour to Normal, Illinois. What were we doing there!? We concluded our wonderful day of adventures of eating a nice dinner at Bob Evans. Although about 30 minutes away from home Melody had to pull over due to hail and hard rain. She couldn't see anything. I thought the event was kind of funny. This was one of Mel and I many road trips. Luckily our adventures didn't get out of hand this time.

The Calhoun Family

Back in the summer of 2004 a friend from church, Sarah Foster came and asked me if would I be interested in working with Faith. Faith and her family met Sarah through a previous church they both attended. After joining a new church she continued to work with Faith. During that summer of 2004 Sarah received an awesome opportunity to go to Northland Baptist Bible College. She needed someone to take her place with Faith. Faith is severely disabled. When one is working with her you must complete any normal morning routine that one would have. Including shower, getting dress, making the bed and then eventually eating lunch and having her daily meds. When Sarah first came to me, I will admit, I wasn't sure if I would be able to do the job. After meeting Faith and her family it was hard to say no. After the first of couple weeks of learning and getting to know Faith, I grew to love Faith and working with her. I even grew to love her family. They are an amazing family who have adopted four kids and raised them. They had one child of their own, Mercy. After a couple of months I really got to know Mrs. Calhoun. We opened up and shared stories, laughed and even cried. After working for them for almost a year I met their son, Paul, who was home on leave from Germany. Paul is in the Army. After a couple of "outings" of getting to know each other we started a new friendship. Just as that had started, Paul had to leave to go back to Germany. He came home one more time in October and then again this year in February. In October Paul and I started dating. Paul is currently in Kuwait. The Calhouns have another son who is in the Navy and is going to Pearl Harbor in Hawaii. Early on this year I received the sad news that the Calhoun family was moving to West Virginia. I was happy that Dr. Calhoun did receive a job. Sarah Foster and I were sad to see them go. We both have grown close to the family. We both have shared how working with Faith has changed us a lot. I would ask you to please keep this family in your prayers as their sons are aboard and for their new home in West Virginia.

The Real Secrets of Cheese and Rice

Welcome to the Secrets of Cheese and Rice!

You may say to yourself, "Wow.. This chick must really love cheese and rice!" The answer to that is WRONG! My deaf friends would know right away what the story behind cheese and rice is. I graduated from Illinois School for the Deaf. During my senior year my friends would often find me in a heated discussion about the Bible with my fellow classmates. On many occasions I would forget to sign. I would get so excited that my hands couldn't keep up with me. On one occasion I was talking about Jesus Christ (calmly) to one of my friends. This friend was hard of hearing like myself and could understand if I didn't sign. While I was talking to my friend others around me were watching. My other, completely deaf friend, came up to me and asked me what I was talking about. I explained that I was talking about a story in the Bible that dealt with Jesus Christ and him dying on the cross. She looked at me and started laughing. Apparently she was trying to read my lips while I was talking. She thought I was talking about cheese and rice. Now you may ask yourself. How would one get cheese and rice from Jesus Christ. Go and stand in front of the mirror and without using your voice, say cheese and rice. Pretty bizarre, huh?

Later that week I shared the funny moment that my friends and I had with my teacher, Mrs. Jamsie Hurt. I went to church with Jamsie and often we would meet to pray or she would encourage me through out day by quoting verses. Well, one day we actually were confronted by someone for openly discussing prayer and God in the classroom. In fact when we met to pray it had to be before or after school hours and not in the presence of anyone in case of offending someone. So one day I was having a really bad day. My teacher said, "Barb, keep you chin up. Remember cheese and rice." Of course no one in the class really understood but we knew. That was all that mattered.